Several people asked on Instagram how we introduced our dog, Burger, to our daughter Clara and how we tried to make the transition from living with a dog to living with a dog and a newborn as calm and positive as possible. We did some online research and talked with our vet ahead of time to prepare for the big change, and here’s a clear, practical account of what we did and what worked for us—plus a few extra tips for anyone about to bring home a baby when a pet is already part of the family.
1. Before we brought Clara home, John briefly left the hospital to drop off a blanket with her scent on it for Burger. We had been at the hospital for four days because of a complicated birth experience, so John brought the blanket from the hospital and placed it in Burger’s crate. Burger is one of those dogs who enjoys his crate, and he spent time there with family members looking after him. Having the blanket with Clara’s scent available helped him get used to her smell before our first full introduction.
2. When we finally came home, Burger was already at the house waiting for us. We carried Clara in her car seat and, at the same time, brought a treat and a new toy for Burger. We’d read that pairing the arrival of a new person with positive experiences can help a dog form a good association, so we wanted Burger to link Clara’s arrival with something fun and rewarding. He got treats, affection, and a new toy as we walked through the door together, which felt like an easy and positive way to begin that association.
3. After we were home, we tried to give Burger love whenever we could while managing the demands of a newborn. There were lots of nursing sessions and naps, which actually freed up small windows of time for us to sit with Burger on the couch and give him attention. We made a point of petting him, offering extra rubs, and including him in family time so he would not feel replaced or ignored. Though he clearly noticed that our household had changed, he did not show problematic behavior like accidents or acting out, which can sometimes happen when routines shift.
In addition to the main steps above, here are a few practical tips we used or learned that may help other families introducing a new baby to a dog:
- Keep routines as consistent as possible. Dogs do better when feeding, walking, and playtimes remain predictable, even in small ways. A familiar routine helps reduce stress during big household changes.
- Supervise all interactions. Never leave a newborn alone with a dog, even if the dog has always been gentle. Always be present for first meetings and closely monitor early interactions.
- Watch body language. Look for signs your dog is comfortable—relaxed posture, loose tail, and calm movements. If your dog shows stiff posture, growling, pinned ears, or avoidance, give them space and consult a professional if needed.
- Use positive reinforcement. Reward calm, friendly behavior with treats or praise. Simple rewards help your dog learn that the baby’s presence is linked to good things.
- Designate safe spaces. Make sure your dog has a quiet, comfortable spot—like a crate or a bed—where they can retreat when household activity becomes overwhelming.
- Consult professionals when needed. We talked with our vet before bringing Clara home, which gave us reassurance and practical guidance tailored to Burger’s temperament.
Overall, the transition felt gradual and positive. Clara quickly became a favorite of Burger’s—probably because she often has crumbs and sticky fingers, which he finds irresistible—so they bonded fast. If you’re preparing for a similar change, plan ahead, use scent and gradual introductions, keep routines familiar, and prioritize supervision. How did you introduce a new baby to your pet? Any tips you’d add for families feeling nervous about the process?