Eighteen Pointers For Working Smarter, Not Harder

I have received a bunch of comment requests for an update on how we are doing when it comes to finding the ever-elusive work/life balance that we have publicly proclaimed that we want to get a handle on this year (we never aspired to work nights, weekends, and even on vacation – and we only have ourselves to blame).

So we thought it was a lively subject to tackle while we are working away on the front porch (cannot wait to share an update for you folks tomorrow!). The scallops are a-tumbling down and the columns are getting boxed in.

But back to the whole work/life balance battle. The first step in the not-working-every-second-of-every-day thing for us was certainly acknowledging the problem (it has certainly been harder for us to shut things off now that both of our jobs revolve around a 24/7 internet, and our laptops are only a room or two away). Then we simply began chatting about it to the world at large (nothing lights a fire under your butt like a public proclamation). So we mentioned it here, here, and even here in this BBC video:

And now that we have been working on it for the last four months or so, with some noticeable progress, I thought I’d share a few things that seem to be helping us get more done in less time (we still have a ways to go considering that we still work three weekends out of four, but we are moving in the right direction).

• Writing out a specific list of things that need to be accomplished and circling the top five priorities, then working towards completing those first. Prioritizing is helpful to me because it I can resist the urge to check smaller things off the list since they are easier, which is not efficient if the bigger tasks are more essential or time sensitive (I am simply stalling if I am putting small straightforward things in front of the big essential things that have to be done anyway).

• Being satisfied when we each complete the five most essential items of the day on our list. It typically takes us all day to get to that point thanks to switching off on caring for Clara, but once we finish them we have to resist the urge to add five more things to the list and work until 1am. Instead we are trying to be satisfied and allow ourselves some non-work time in the evening when we can. It feels weird to cut ourselves off – but it is so good for us to step. away. from. the. laptop.

• Cutting down on inbox clutter. John and I receive about 200 emails a day (it is a fairly even split since we divide and conquer when it comes to managing ads, giveaways, and inquiries in general) but I noticed that around 30% of those emails are junk mail, so I took ten minutes one morning to unsubscribe to those daily offenders. Turns out it is a lot nicer to wake up to emails in the double digits (even if there are 72 in my inbox by 8am) than triple digits (ex: 145 the first time I check my email) – so I will take it. We have also been using the canned message function in gmail to assist us handle certain emails more efficiently (sure beats writing up the same info every time).

• Stepping down to seven posts a week instead of eight. This has in fact truly helped since we implemented it after mentioning it here. Even though it does not sound like it should make much of a difference (it is simply one less post a week), it adds up to 52 fewer posts a year – which means that now one week night or even a whole Saturday may get to be spent doing something lively as a family instead of scrambling to maintain our old eight-posts-in-five-days pace.

• Being realistic. This year one of our resolutions is to remember that we are only two people. Two highly dedicated folks who enjoy what we do, but two people who cannot do the work of ten people, no matter how hard we try. So we simply have to do our best and accept that projects could consistently be bigger and posts could consistently have more pictures but we cannot beat ourselves up about doing things as thoroughly as we can manage and then pressing “publish.” Especially when we are churning out around 30 posts a month (which means that noodling one project or post too much can in fact rob time from other things on the agenda).

And while John and I are quite much a work in progress on this subject, my friends and relatives are all much smarter than we are (most of them work regular hours and spend every night, weekend, and vacation without being connected to a computer). Can you imagine?! It is the most romantic notion, and we are desperate to get in on that action someday. So I chose to text them all one plain question and see if they had any advice. The question? “How do you work smarter, and not harder?” Here is what they all had to say:

Emily, a senior booking agent, mother of three (and John’s sister) says: Realistically I work smarter by asking for assist and having a support network of friends. I literally spend hours in a car shuttling kids and cannot be in more than one place. So a quite organized network of carpoolers is my lifeline. I realize and accept that there is no possible way for me to do it alone. I also work smarter by having my older kids (ages 12 and 14) do their own laundry and put it away. They make their own lunches too. That old saying “do not do for your kids what they can do for themselves” certainly contributes to our household running more smoothly.

Cat, a mother of two says: I put things away as I find them. Everything has its place. I designate a time each day to take a laundry basket and carry it floor to floor to put things away. I like to give myself a deadline like ten minutes to see how much I can get done. I read something once that said “Where does a fork go in your house? In the utensil holder in the utensil drawer in the kitchen. Make everything a fork. Everything needs a spot.” It truly resonated with me. Oh and I do not do auto pay on any bills because I like to look them over and make sure I am not getting hosed, but I pay them immediately upon receipt. I have frequently found overages I would’ve missed if I signed up for auto-pay that way.

Roo, a mother of three and humor blogger says: I use canned responses in Gmail along with a lot of helpful labs in Gmail. And I like the send + archive button (here is a post with more of her pointers).

Noah, an artist, author, and brand new father says: I try to maintain inbox zero as a way to not let email be my to-do list. So I immediately respond to short emails, especially at the start and end of my workday. I think of it as hitting the tennis ball back across the net, “pok, your turn.” Sometimes I will quit my email program or cover the notification bar during the middle of my work day when I do not want to be distracted. I also unsubscribe from mailing lists and have an auto response for messages that only need a stock response. I also separate personal and work email so I am not distracted by the other when I am at/away from work.

Katie, a blogger and mother of two says: For blogging, I think batch editing, grouping like projects together (spray painting ten things instead of simply one), and writing out a post to-do list helps. I also like to upload all of the photos for five distinct posts in one day and then write the narration for one of them each evening that follows. I also have set times for comment-reading and post-writing that coincide with sleep times or independent play time for my children. I also like to plan out a morning craft or activity the night before so if I stay up late working I do not rob the kids of something lively in the morning. Oh and I use a crock pot a lot, and consistently have shredded chicken on hand for swift meals.

Kristin, a freelance copywriter says: My calendar is my boss. I plan ahead, and live/die by it. I put workouts on there so time is scheduled in, along with lunch dates, deadlines, and whatever I am going to work on each day. That way, I see my day, know what needs to be done, and feel good checking things off. You can easily work harder if you simply fill your calendar with stuff until you are not sleeping, but I do not do that. I need a break. I also never ever EVER work on Saturday. Saturday is my day. No exceptions. Also, I like a glass of wine after a long day. It unwinds me ;)

Megan, a senior marketing director says: Efficiency and technology. Develop strategic systems and plans the first time you do something so that the next time you attempt it the path is already laid out for you. Evaluate the process a few times a year to allow for evolution and refinement. And if a computer can process something faster than you can, let it or learn how to let it.

Dan, a chemist (and my push-up loving brother) says: Multitask so there is not a minute wasted. Like brush your teeth while you shower or watch a TV show and do pushups during the commercials.

Dusty, a full time quality improvement manager, mother, and blogger says: If you are doing something you enjoy, it will not matter how hard you have to work to get there. The smartest people know this, and choose their tasks accordingly. And if its a job you hate to do, but it still has to get done (like cleaning the bathroom, prepping taxes, proofreading) it is not a crime to outsource those to save precious time that could be better spent doing something else.

Heather, an advertising art supervisor and mother says: All of the following things seem to assist me make my day go smoother and cut out inefficiencies: being prepared, doing research, hiring the right people with the correct skill set, making a plan, making a list, asking questions, thinking ahead, and preparing for the worst but hoping for the best.

Nicole, a blogger and mother of two says: I had to work more efficiently when I became a mom because I had less time (and desire) to work. I use canned email responses for pitches that are not a good fit. I try to get a little more done at night if I want to have a mid-week day off, and I began saving drafts in my Wordpress admin with ideas for future posts. They could simply be a title or a few links but they are strong for keeping me on track when I am stuck and I do not forget topics that I want to cover. I also have a secret Pinterest board (“Things To Journal About”) to visually bookmark ideas.

Lisa, operations director and mother of two says: It is got to be technology. Keeping to-do lists, reminders, and calendars on my iPhone helps me get things done and get my family where they need to be. Menu planning also saves me a lot of time.

Diana, a trial attorney of thirty years (and my mom) says: The key to efficiency for me is identifying what I want to do, mapping out specific and realistic tasks that will lead to accomplishing it, and completing those tasks without distraction. I find that multitasking is typically too chaotic for me, so focusing on one task at a time leads to a better personal result.

Is not it interesting how something that works for someone (my brother loves multitasking) does not work for another (my mom loves focusing on one task at a time – which is typically the best approach for me – so I guess I am my mother’s daughter). And now, since I am convinced you folks have secrets of your own, let us pretend I simply texted you the “how do you work smarter, not harder?” question. Any pointers or tricks out there that work for you?

Update – Some of the most frequent requests that we get are for info about professionally blogging (how we made our site, how we grew our following, how we make money, etc) so we shared all of the details about how we began a journal, grew our traffic, and turned it into a full time job.