Wedding Ideas: Favors, Decor, Table Settings, & Photostrips: a house log

And now for the juicy wedding week Hands-on decor that you’ve all been waiting for.

From the moment people arrived, we hoped to make sure they felt comfortable and warmly welcomed. So we created a handy dandy little wooden welcome sign with a hand painted message for our guests. And thanks to the sandwich-board construction (two pieces of wood secured with plain hinges at the top), we were also able to paint a cute departure message which said “Thanks for sharing our special day, please grab a glowstick to light your way to the car” along with a galvanized bucket of white glow sticks to assist people navigate our semi-dark street safely. And we made the sign and purchased the glow sticks in bulk for under $30 total. Cha-ching. Here is John’s dad playing greeter next to our “masterpiece”.

We hoped a celebration that felt festive and lively without sacrificing an ounce of style, so we were sure to set the tables with care. And while we likely saved well over a few thousand dollars with our Hands-on approach, we literally did every last thing ourselves (and spent months and months getting stuff together). In fact, other than renting the tables and chairs from a local vendor, there was nothing conventional about our reception’s set up. The tablecloths and runners were in fact simply white muslin and textured yellow fabric that we purchased from a local fabric store and the glassware was largely purchased at Ikea. We swiftly realized that strategically buying these items was in fact cheaper than renting them and we were able to create a more custom look without worrying about fees for staining, ripping, or breaking anything. Even the silverware was purchased from Sam’s Club. Afterwards we donated a lot of the servingware to charity, which felt truly good (and was a write off to boot).

By choosing fruit over flowers (straight from the grocery store that morning) and going with centerpieces we could easily assemble ourselves (we are talking ten minutes of arranging, tops), we saved hundreds while keeping things fresh and chic. The glass cylinders for the fruit centerpieces were from Michaels for $3.99 a pop and we also snagged about 200 glass votives thanks to Craigslist- where a former bride sold them all for $30 after barely using ’em herself. We even found festive lemon & lime paper napkins at Target and the punchy citrus print perfectly echoed our lemon and lime centerpieces (note: we may have over-purchased these, as we are still using them to this day).

And now for the answer to the “what is in those brown bags” question that many of you have been asking. Our garden themed favors were plain brown mini paper bags (thanks, Target) which held a single gladiolis bulb for our guests’ garden with straightforward planting instructions written on the back of each bag. Clipped to the front of the bag was another photostrip (tying in our save-the-date and the actual photobooth that we rented for the event) with John’s face covered in lipstick kisses while we held signs that read: Plant one… on us! *smooooch*

We also created place cards for each guest by hand stamping their first initial on a small square of cardstock, hand lettering their full name underneath and securing each card with a river rock (thanks again, Target). Many guests kept their cards (and even their rocks) which helped to remind us that sometimes plain can be simply as elegant and striking as fancy calligraphy and ribbons.

Another special table detail was our bevy of charming beverage containers. Instead of big plastic pitchers, we hoped the chic look of glass so we asked a local wine retailer to save old bottles for us (leftover from their weekly wine tastings and totally f-r-e-e). Once at home we made sure they were squeaky clean and hand labeled ’em with a sharpie (which never rubbed off or faded in case you are wondering). We used all the green bottles to hold water, brown bottles for sweet tea and clear ones for homemade mint lemonade (fresh mint + lemonade= yum). Of course we also had many bottles of red and white wine on hand along with some of those cute vintage glass bottles of coca-cola. We truly think making the effort to avoid cans and plastic kept things über classy and picture ideal.

And as for how the idea to rent a photobooth came about, here is the scoop. We were trying to think about something lively that we could introduce for some serious entertainment value (cotton candy machine? fireworks? sno-cone maker?) when we came up with the photobooth idea (spurred by our tradition of documenting many relationship milestones with a photobooth strip). For months we tried to hunt down something local (and then something not-so-local) to no avail, but about three months before the big day a lovely local lady named Lisa-Ann launched a photobooth rental business, and we were one of her first customers. At $1200 for the day (which included unlimited photostrips and an on site attendant to keep the booth running) it was certainly a splurge, but it truly was the ideal touch. And the hysterical strips of our friends and family having lively in the booth are one of our go-to keepsakes (which we have collected in a leather-bound album while framing a few of our go-tos around the house).

To encourage people to leave a few of their photostrips for us (and display them for other guests to peruse throughout the night) we transformed our big red metal garage door into the ultimate oversized magnetboard. All it took was a buncha inexpensive magnets and a sweet little reminder to save some photostrips for us. And lo and behold it worked… we ended up with even more photostrips than guests.

But one of our quite go-to photostrips was the last one taken late in the evening after all of our guests had left. We ducked into the booth right before they hauled it away (John was not even wearing his wedding pants anymore and had changed into shorts to start cleaning up). We simply enjoy how this strip perfectly captures the joy of the day and the undeniably euphoric feeling of…

… we cannot believe we in fact pulled it off!!!

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